While reading the selection for this week I took a lot of notes and these are the most interesting of them.
P. 90. “This was the beginning of my being called Old Woman, and Little Old Woman, and Cobweb, and Mrs. Shipton, and Mother Hubbard, and Dame Durden, and so many other names of that sort, that my own name soon became quite lost among them.” What do you think about this? Are they appropriate, degrading, anything? From the foot note we learn that these names refer to ‘folklore mother figures’. She is a mother like figure in this book but is it all she is? What do you think about her name being lost? Is she loosing her identity now that she will no longer be called by her real name but by one of these nicknames?
From all the women we see in this selection, who is a better mother? Mrs. Jellyby and Mrs. Pardiggle are like the anti-heroes, the bad mothers, bad women. Esther is portrayed as the opposite of that, the hero. She is the embodiment of Dickens’ version of what a woman/mother should be like. What about Jenny? What about the woman that came to comfort Jenny? Which side, do you think they belong on? Are they good mothers, bad mothers, somewhere in between, etc? Personally I think that Jenny, even though she is poor and her home and family are not in a good condition, is considered to be a good mother by Dickens. At the very least I think she is a better mother than Mrs. Jellyby and Mrs. Pardiggle. I think that Dickens is showing us a scale of what kinds of mothers exist. Mrs. Jellyby completely ignores her family and her kids, its like she carries them for nine months and once they are out they are on their own. Mrs. Pardiggle is a bit more involved with the kids but still ignores their desires, its as if she only sees to their basic needs and the rest of her time, energy and everything including the children’s allowances, are devoted to the causes. I think Jenny should be somewhere higher on the ladder than the previous two but I do not think Dickens intended her to be as good as Esther. Isn’t it curious that the only woman that does not have kids is the best mother?
Who do you thing Nemo really is? Who killed Nemo? Why is he even called Nemo (no one)? Remember some chapters ago Lady Dedlock saw legal papers with his hand writing and fainted? What kind of history do they have? Mr. Guppy recognized a painting of a younger Lady Dedlock when he visited her house. Could the painting have reminded him of Esther? Could Nemo and Lady Dedlock be Esther’s biological parents?
As to the question of which narrator I liked better my answer is Esther. She talks to us like her equals, the same way she talked to her doll. The Dickensian narrator, on the other hand, talks down to us. I understand him trying to make a point, but saying something once or twice is enough for me to understand what someone is trying to say. He tells us the same thing, by restating the question, ten times or more. As if he thinks that if he does not say something over and over, and over, and over again, we are so dense that, we will not understand.
Good Luck,
ILONA